Independence: nothing more than to have your head in the clouds

 In Today Era someone says that I am Independent, or many individuals have their status that “I am Independent woman or young man”, so consider once that really they are?

After completed my schooling in 12 years, I had to get used being on my own an early age. I learn to take care of myself, make good friends and done so many things, for which I was responsible only.

When I transitioned to my college I don’t know what to do, how will life will go on and what kind of friend or people I meet with. But surely I had plenty of other worries- to think about my future, my courier and my aim also that how am I going to achieve that effectively. And I knew that how I have to manage all the things which is going on around me either fun with friends or my studies.   

When I transitioned to my higher education I do not know what to do, how lifestyle will go on and what type of buddy or individuals I meet with. But absolutely I had a lot of other worries- to think about my upcoming and my aim also that how am I going to accomplish that successfully. And I realized that how I have to handle all the factors which is going on around me either fun with buddies or my studies.

 “I adjust everything as I have done before. I took care of my need. I manage my lifestyle. And I have capability to survive on my own.” Or I imagine so.

We are living in our house, but have you ever think that When you wake up after a good night sleep and feeling so fresh and rested.  But the bed on which you slept was not yours. The blanket is not yours or not the roof belongs to you. As this is the hospitality of your father, you slept in peace- without worry of cold and mosquitoes also, as your father earned all these things which is utilizing by you. The Cup of tea and plate of breakfast is also get by some other one or due to fellowship of your family and friends also. Even everywhere, you are still being dependent to other people. As you necessitate farmers to grow the foodstuff that you eat, for construction you need constructors, train drivers, bus drivers and police officers for running the city. You need your friend to share your life and emotions. You need a girl as girlfriend or a wife, well, everything. Due to these people you live the way you do.

As you depend on everyone and other people also depend upon you. At first time it seems like loss of freedom – when we admitting we are depending on others but it is bitter truth as you can nothing on by own. But I think the opposite true.

• We don’t have to journey from beginning to end life alone. We walk with our friends.
• We don’t have to emulate someone else. They’ve dig up that role covered.
• We don’t have to do the whole thing ourselves. There are others one around to help us.

Alike way that we depend on others, others depend on us. Our place in the scheme is important. We’re able to flourish there. Dependence doesn’t mean requires of responsibility. We choose our standards. We decide our outlook. We choose our response to those we depend on. It’s up to us that how we want live our life or to live in a way that adds value to persons around us – our families, society, and humankind. We can follow the advice of Abraham Lincoln: “Whatever you are, be a good one.” For when we are at our best, others benefit.